Mythe 4: I don’t want a relationship right now, leave my body at peace. I’m not ready for the next love-illusion. I’m fine on my own.
Key to deconstruction
Turn it around!
You want an intensly satisfying relationship, please rile my body up. I’m looking forward to a life full of Lovingness. Your foundation is a beautiful and loving relationship with yourself and with life!
Disappointments happen a lot in relationships. That doesn’t mean you don’t want a relationship (anymore). Just not in the same way you had them before.
Time to make The Next Step: the more you travel the road of the True Lover, the more you grow towards a relationship that does fulfill you.
You will be ready for the type of partner or relationship you want, and you will be more attractive to these men and/or women. Also within an existing relationship things start to shift when someone starts to focus more on Lovingness. It only takes one to start, so no more excuses, no matter how scary it may feel, how much fear of failure you have.
A new reality is dawning. And yes… It really can happen.
Having a relationship with yourself, truly loving yourself is thé key, thé first step towards all other happiness and love-experiences.
It’s only when you are filled with (self)love, that you have something to give and when you give it comes back to you in spades.
In a nice metaphore it sounds like this:
‘It’s not untill you have made your house a nice home for yourself, you can open the doors and invite others into it.’
Being fine on your own only happens when you are happy with being by yourself, without needing to do something, without finding distractions or needing something to fill your time with (like watching TV, reading, being online, calling/skyping, sports…)
Make life very nice for and with you.
Get to know yourself even better: What are your desires, what do you want to feel, what’s your true pleasure, your mission, your simplicity and your versatility, your love, your intelligence, your deepest truth – again and again… past shame and shyness.
So unique, so human, so divine… it’s difficult nót to love you.
Sandra Pijl is... Puja Love.
Stay tuned for her new website and events under her new name and branding coming Spring 2018!
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life & love
Let your intimate powers lead you.
Thrive in all aspects of your life
But I keep speaking and working in dutch and in Holland as well!